Most men think that strategies and tactics are what lead to growth and victory. But from my experience as a strategy expert, I don’t believe this is the case. I can give two men the exact same strategy and one will execute it flawlessly while the other stumbles and keeps repeating the same mistakes. What’s the difference between these two men? It’s simply beliefs.
Your belief system determines your progress and it can also stop you from getting what you want all together. Out of the thousands of beliefs you have, these seven are the most important for your growth, success and ultimate victory in whatever you are trying to achieve.
1. “It’s Worth It”
The first belief you must have is that what you are trying to achieve is worth it. If you don’t think it is, you won’t have the motivation and drive to do what is necessary. Most men want to be fit and healthy but many don’t think that getting off the couch to exercise is worth the effort. The payoff for them isn’t enough to get them to move.
2. “I Deserve It”
To have what you want, you must believe that you are worthy of it. You might want it bad enough but perhaps there’s a voice inside of you telling you that you’re not good enough or perhaps you did something in your past that makes you unworthy. You may even compare yourself to some other guy and believe that he deserves it but you don’t because he’s better than you in some way. Build the belief of being worthy of it because you do deserve it.
3. “It’s My Responsibility To Make It Happen”
No one can give you what you want except for you. You are the creator of your life and future. If you’re expecting someone else to do the dirty work for you, think again. Being an alpha male means that you create your destiny and not succumb to the circumstances handed to you.
4. “I Have The Ability To Make It Happen”
Having faith in your ability will give you more confidence to keep pushing through your challenges. Change requires you to step outside of your comfort zone and develop new skills and talent. The key isn’t to compare yourself to others, it’s to compare yourself to yesterday. Have you grown in some way, shape or form in the last 24 hours? Have you learned something new? Have you self-reflected and course corrected your path? Believing in your ability comes from your growth moving forward rather than your what you’re capable of right at this moment.
5. “I Know How To Make It Happen”
The path may not be crystal clear at first but it will with time. One of the biggest obstacles you may face is the feeling of overwhelm. Where do you start? How can you get all of this done within the time frame you want to? Don’t worry about the “how” you’re going to do everything at first. Just focus on the first step. If you know how to take the first step, the next step will reveal itself.
6. “I Believe It’s Possible”
You will always come across those people who tell you it’s not possible. Ignore them! You must have total certainty that you will get what you want. This certainty shows up in your thoughts, actions and emotions. More importantly it tells the universe that you are ready to accept it. A lot men go through the motions but inside they don’t believe it’s possible. The universe can sense a man with fake beliefs. Believe it’s possible and you will have it.
7. “I Can Overcome My Challenges”
The path to victory is a bumpy one. You will face many challenges so you must be prepared mentally, emotionally and spiritually to overcome them. Your challenges may seem daunting so deal with them one by one and you’ll soon realize that these challenges are gifts. They are forcing you to grow. If victory was so easy, every man would achieve it. But they don’t. Just by believing that you can overcome your challenges, you’ve just put yourself in top ten percentile. This is by far, one of the most important beliefs you can have.
Build empowering empowering beliefs and you will have empowering results. I give you a deeper understanding of these beliefs in my podcast episode 96 “The Seven Keys To Positive Transformation”. Listen by clicking here https://purdeepsangha.com/podcast/episode-96-the-seven-keys-to-positive-transformation/