Christopher gripped the leather steering wheel of his black Audi A6. The rain poured down as he drove home after another long day at the office.
Dinner would be waiting for him in the fridge. He’d have to warm it up without waking up the kids. They’d already be tucked in bed; another night with daddy stuck at work instead of at home with the family.
It felt like he was missing the most important years of their lives, and for what? Success? Status? His name, mentioned in the occasional Forbes article?
Was any of that worth what he was giving up in return?
The thought crossed his mind. The same thought he’d had a dozen times on late night drives home, just like this one…
“If I just hit the gas and jerked the wheel, and wrapped this car around the closest tree, would it even matter?”
From the outside, his life looked perfect. He’d married his high school sweetheart. They had two beautiful children. He drove a nice car and they lived in a big house. He ran one of the most successful businesses in town.
Christopher had it all.
But he wasn’t happy.
“What the hell is wrong with me,” he asked himself, snapping back to reality.
Maybe you’ve heard the old saying, “I climbed to the top of the latter, only to realize it was up against the wrong wall.” Well, that’s how Christopher felt at that very moment.
His stress levels were through the roof.
He worked 50+ hours a week and felt like he’d stopped making any progress. His health was starting to slip, as he had trouble finding time to make it to the gym on a regular basis. On top of that, things weren’t as great at home as he made them out to be.
The family photo on his desk, filled with happiness and smiles, was a mask for growing tensions between his wife and him. Their sex life was suffering after having the two kids. Little things would get under his skin and set him off for no explainable reason.
It felt like he’d hit an invisible boundary in life.
No matter how much he struggled, nothing got any easier. In fact, things just seemed to be getting harder.
Back when he was a kid, people told Christopher about how much potential he had. And up until a few years ago, most things came pretty easy to him. He passed all his classes without studying. Girls found his confidence irresistible. People had faith in him and lined up behind his every idea.
So what changed?
A few years back, Marvel Comics had a smash hit movie called Guardians of the Galaxy. You probably saw it. It’s Christopher’s favorite in the series. One of the best-loved characters from that franchise is a tiny little potted plant named Baby Groot.
Groot is alive; with eyes and ears and a mouth. He can move and dance and interact with the rest of the crew. Audiences fell in love when they saw the little plant dancing on the big screen. Groot reminded Christopher of a small houseplant he’d had as a kid.
His houseplant was a kind of tree, like a Bonsai. His dad got it for him as a gift one year. Like Baby Groot, it was in a small ceramic pot, which Christopher watered every day and let sit out on his window seal.
After a while, Christopher’s small tree stopped growing.
He watered it, the same as always. He gave it plenty of sunlight and only the best soil. But no matter what, his little tree would no longer grow.
In the movie, Groot wasn’t always a baby. In fact, he could grow to 20 or 30 feet tall. But while he was in the pot, he stayed a baby; cute, adorable, and highly merchandisable.
One day, Christopher’s mom took a look at the little tree and knew right away what the problem was. She told him, “This little guy is Pot-Bound.”
Pot-Bound, Christopher soon discovered, is what happens when a tree’s roots are restricted by the size of its pot. If the roots can’t grow, the rest of the plant stays stunted as well, no matter how much water or sunlight it receives.
He and his mom took the little tree, removed it from the pot, and planted it in the backyard, next to the fish pond. At once, the little tree started growing again. Within the year, it had grown from less than a foot tall to its full height; just above three feet.
Once the roots could stretch out, so could the branches. Only then could the little tree grow to its true potential.
Remembering that tree, Christopher now feels like he’s in the same position.
No matter how much water he gives his business, it doesn’t grow. No matter how much sunlight he gives to his home life, things just get darker. He feels restricted – confined on the inside – and it’s preventing him from seeing the growth he wants on the outside.
In a lot of ways, Christopher is feeling like his own worst enemy. He’s made investments in his business that no longer show returns. He feels like he’s lost “the magic touch”. His team is starting to lose faith in him as a leader.
Even worse are his fears for his home life.
He’s tried everything he can think of to improve his marriage, but he still sees disaster on the horizon. If it comes to divorce, he could lose half of everything he owns. He could lose custody of his kids.
If not a divorse, then a long, drawn-out continuation of what he has now… A stagnant relationship and the guilt of being an absentee father.
Christopher feels like that plant from his childhood; struggling for growth, not able to use the water and sunlight he has. His roots are pot-bound, and until he does some inner-work, he knows he’ll never see the outer results he’s looking for.
Struggling to break free.
Christopher is like a lot of the guys I work with. He was pouring money into his business while avoiding the investments he needed to make in himself. He was going about things in the most difficult way possible, without even knowing it.
He’s come a long way since then. But before I tell you about that… Did you know that your brain is the world’s most powerful supercomputer?
First; the good news.
Between your ears is the most powerful computer the world has ever known. It can process information at amazing speeds, come up with solutions to complex problems, and keep every part of your body functioning, all at the same time.
Information and problem-solving are the keys to success, and you’ve got the best tool for the job, right inside your own head.
Now; the bad news.
Running that bad boy uses a lot of energy.
If you had to be ever-present – aware of everything happening around you, all the time – you’d be constantly exhausted. If you had to make a decision for every choice that came your way, you’d never have time to relax.
To make life bearable, most of what your brain does, it manages to do on programs running in the background.
Pumping your blood, turning food into energy, breathing, walking, watching out for danger; your brain does all these things for you, without you having to ask. These are all done on unconscious loops… background programs, if you will.
But these aren’t the only things your brain puts on loops in the background. In fact, most of the small decisions you make throughout the day are also set on auto-pilot and run on programs you might not even realize you have.
Stop living life on auto-pilot.
When your wife or girlfriend accuses you of something you didn’t do, how do you react?
When someone cuts you off in traffic, how do you react?
When you get good news. When you get bad news. When someone leaves you in suspense… How do you react?
When someone on your team fails to meet expectations, how do you respond?
A lot of times, we respond to these things with pre-written programs. We react without even thinking. And afterward, when we look back at how we reacted, sometimes we kick ourselves in the ass for repeatedly doing the wrong thing in these situations.
It’s easy to fall into patterns with things, especially after the third or fourth time we’ve dealt with them. These are our programs. Most of them are so ingrained that we don’t even realize we have them.
The first time we encounter a situation, we try to figure out how to deal with it. But after a while, a situation pops up and we tell ourselves, “Oh, I remember this. Time to do that.” And we act out our programming.
“Oh, she’s got that look again. I know where this is going.”
“Oh, he’s late to work again. I know what’s coming next.”
These are the stories we tell ourselves, that trigger our programming, that dictate our responses.
Some of these programs are written for us; by our parents, our teachers, the media, our politicians, and our bosses. They tell us how we’re supposed to act in a given situation, and we accept their opinions as facts, making them part of our own programming.
Most of our programs, we write for ourselves, through the first couple of times we have to deal with something. Then, after we think we’ve got it figured out, we set it on auto-pilot, never to be re-examined again.
The problem is, a lot of the programs we write for ourselves, were written before we had much understanding of ourselves, of others, and of the world around us. Most of our pre-conditioned responses, we formed when we were young adults, teenagers, or even children. It’s what worked for us then, so we wrote the program, and we still use it now, late into our adult life.
Now we run a business, but our programs from back in grade school still run us. We set a goal to accomplish, but our programming works against us. We want to live a certain type of lifestyle, but it’s not consistent with the identity we’ve built for ourselves, so we never attain it.
All these little scripts that no longer serve us, but still run as pre-programmed responses. It may have been decades since a program was written, never receiving a software update as we got older. We keep running on them, wondering why we can’t break free of our current situation.
This is where Christopher found himself, running the same old programs, desperately wanting a different result.
These programs, if left unchecked, become the lens through which we see the world. They start to mold our belief systems without us even realizing it.
We search out evidence of their accuracy. We ignore evidence of their errors. They become part of who we tell ourselves we are. They become our identity. They become the pot in which our roots find themselves restricted.
We want to grow. We want to live a more fulfilling life. But we’re stuck in our pots. We’re stuck in our programs.
A lot of guys try to fix this by going to a weekend retreat with some motivational speaker. They get all pumped up with positive affirmations and leave feeling like their world is about to change for the better.
Three weeks later, they’re back to their old ways, running on their old programs, struggling to get through the day.
For Christopher, it was about his identity. He wanted a higher level of success in life, but he was the guy who struggled at where he was. He wanted to have a passionate love life, but he was the guy with two kids and a sexless marriage.
He wanted to reach True North in his life, but he was the guy who got distracted and ended up walking east, west, and even south, most of the time.
His identity was the guy who succeeded; but not without a lot of struggle, and never to the extent that he truly desired.
He wanted to be the guy who had it all and was happy. But he saw himself as the guy who worked hard to get it all… and was miserable because of it.
What he wanted, and what he believed about himself, were not in alignment.
For Christopher, it was as easy as asking what kind of guy he wanted to be, and what kind of programs would that guy be operating on? Then, he went about rewriting his own programs to align with that.
Once he saw himself as the guy who had all the things he wanted, he started consciously following programs that led him there.
Now, he’s living in alignment with where he wants to be, and his life has never been better.
A lot of men tell themselves the same lie… “Once I get this, then I’ll do/be that.
“Once I’m successful, then I’ll find more time to take care of my health.”
“Once my wife appreciates me, then I’ll be happy in this relationship.”
“Once I’m rich, I’ll donate to that cause I say I care so much about.”
The truth is, they’re going about things all backward.
When you take care of your health, you’ll have more energy and brainpower, making it easier to find success at work.
When you’re happier in your relationship, your wife will appreciate you more.
When you start giving to that cause today, you open yourself up to making more money because you know part of that increased wealth will make its way to a worthy cause.
You get to choose your identity.
Once you start acting and living in alignment with the identity you’ve chosen, that identity will start to manifest in the world around you. Once you start behaving like the man you want to be, you’ll become the man you want to be. But most guys keep running on the same scripts they always have, expecting that they’ll somehow get different results than what they’ve always been getting.
Here’s the hard truth; A weekend retreat isn’t going to help you in the long run. Positive affirmations and wishful thinking aren’t going to be what sets your roots free. It’s gonna take some work on rewriting your programs, and re-imagining your identity. But it can be done, and you can do it.
Christopher is like most of my clients. Working on how he saw himself, and how he wanted to see himself, made a big difference in his life. Making sure his programming matched his desired outcomes started him on his path becoming the man always wanted to be. Now he’s living it.
By breaking the pot – the unconscious programming – they’re able to live into their desired identity. And that’s only one part of why my approach outperforms all the other coaches and gurus out there.
Imagine your life was split up into three areas; your business, your personal life, and your relationships. Now, imagine all three areas ran off of the same battery.
Most coaches – and their programs – only focus on one or two of these areas at once.
It’s like seeing a counselor for your marriage. Even if things start going great at home, life at the office is still a nightmare. Pretty soon, stress from the office is going to make its way back into the bedroom.
After all, you’ve only got one battery. Even if one or two areas are running as proficient as possible, if one area is still draining, it can suck the life out of the others.
My approach focuses on the whole picture, to help you be a more complete man. When we tackle all three areas at once, each one helps boost the power of the others, instead of draining them.
When you’re happy with your sex life, your confidence goes up at work. When work isn’t stressing you out, you have time to do the things you love, the things that recharge you. When you go home feeling optimistic, energized, it turns your wife on like a light switch.
Each area feeds the next. But it can only have that effect when you’re approaching things from the Complete Man point of view.
If you get a coach or enroll in a program, and you’re not taking a holistic approach to things, you’re not gonna get these kinds of results.
You’re gonna stay stuck on the hamster wheel, running your ass off and never really getting anywhere. Out of energy, with nothing to show for it.
You can have a battery that recharges itself; a life where every aspect of it energizes the others.
It’s not as easy as a weekend conference with your favorite guru. It requires working on yourself and taking control of your own identity. It involves making your life sync up in every area. But once one piece falls into place, the rest start lining up, almost as if on cue.
Before you know it, you’ll have more energy, more clarity, and more time to spend doing the things that make you happy.
This is where Christopher finds himself now.
It’s a long way from that night he almost wrapped his Audi A6 around the nearest tree on the way home. And would you believe, that was only three months ago? That’s the kind of transformation I have in store for you.
I’ll give you strategies for making better decisions and executing on them more efficiently. You’ll discover ways to build better habits, better manage your emotions, and better leverage your intuition. You’ll have all the tools you need to run like a well-oiled machine.
Oh, and I should mention, this program is ONLY FOR GUYS.
I know that’s not something we’re allowed to say anymore, but it is what it is. This program is for guys.
Most productivity gurus and coaches keep their programs generic, appealing to both men and women. Some even tailor their programs for women, because they know the truth… men and women are different and have different needs. But creating a program exclusively for men?
Well, nobody wants to be labeled a sexist these days, so guys have kind of gotten the short end of the stick as a result.
I work with men; husbands, fathers, leaders. Executives, entrepreneurs, and CEOs.
We have different obstacles, different values, and different programming… And it’s time we had something geared towards getting us what we want out of life.
To have it all; a more fulfilling life, a feeling of completion, without having to sacrifice everything that makes life worth living.
Your business will thrive. Your love life will thrive. Your personal relationships will grow deeper and multiply.
You’ll no longer feel stuck or like you’re missing out on what life has to offer.
If that sounds good to you, let me help you get it.
I’m widely known as “The Strategist for Businessmen” among the entrepreneurs and global CEOs that I’ve coached and consulted. I’ve established credentials in business growth, psychology, neuroscience, and financial management, just to name a few. I work with guys just like you, to help them live more complete, more fulfilling lives.
Some of my previous clients include Frank Kern and Raymond Aaron. You’ve probably heard of them. Working with niche-celebrities like these guys is a blast. But my real passion is helping business owners and executives like you get the most out of life.
More importantly, I’m also a businessman, husband, and father. So I know the challenges that come along with balancing a successful business, a happy family, and fulfilling personal life.
That’s why I’m putting together…
First, let me say; I get it. You’re busy. The last thing you need in your life is another obligation on your time.
I knew if I was going to put this program together, I’d need to respect your time and make it a worthwhile investment for you.
The guys I work with tend to start seeing results in the first week. Many of them no longer need my mentorship after just a few months of working together. Getting more out of your life shouldn’t be something that takes forever to achieve. That said, more out of life is exactly what you’ll get when you invest your time with me.
I’m inviting you to work with me for three months.
Once you’re done, you’ll be more productive, energetic, and efficient than you ever thought possible. You’ll get more done, in less time, with less wasted energy. Our three months of working together will be the best investment of time you’ve ever made.
Once you’re signed up and I’ve made sure this is the right program for you, you’ll get access to the members-only area of our website, and your transformation into being a Complete Man will begin.
Each week, you’ll get one new video training to consume. They’ll be short and to the point. Each one will last no longer than 15 minutes. You’ll be able to access them from the members only area of now.purdeepsangha.com website.
As I said, I want to respect your time.
Later that week, we’ll meet on a group-coaching call to review the training and answer any questions you might have. I’ll give you access to the Zoom link for each week’s call and we’ll go from there.
To make sure you get the most out of these calls, I’m limiting this group-coaching to 10 or 15 guys. I want to make sure you get the attention you deserve so we can address the issues specific to you.
These weekly calls will last an hour each and you’ll have time to bring up any questions or concerns you might have.
You’ll also get one (1) monthly personal coaching call, in case you need time to address anything that might not make sense to bring up in the group calls. These one-on-one calls typically range between 45 minutes to an hour. These calls will also be through Zoom, but with a private link that nobody but you will have access to.
I’m here to help you better leverage your time, not to take it all up. From what I’ve found, working with guys from all over the world, this approach gets the fastest results, without taking up more of your time than it has to.
What you’ll get from this program is a whole new list of systems to help you live the most complete life possible.
Imagine a guy running his business by himself, by the seat of his pants. Each day, he comes in and immediately goes into reaction mode. His disasters from yesterday decide his focus for today.
If you told him that taking 20 minutes to plan things out at the beginning of each week would make his life better, he’d probably laugh you out of the building.
“20 minutes?”, he’d say. “I can barely find 20 seconds to breathe. How do you expect me to find 20 minutes to plan?”
But if he did find 20 minutes each week to plan, it could save him 30 minutes running around like a madman. And if he took that plan, turned it into a system, and hired someone to follow the system… he might be able to save himself 50 hours of his life each week.
That’s the power of systems. A little time spent upfront. A lot of time saved in the long run.
When you complete this coaching, you’ll have a whole new list of systems to improve your life and business.
You’ll have new systems and programs to optimize your thinking. You’ll make better decisions and get better results. Your self-image and outlook on the world will improve. Your mind will be sharper, more focused, and geared for success in every area of your life.
You’ll have new programs to run in the background, programs that serve you, programs that you have a hand in writing.
This is how you take control over your own life; over your own destiny. This is how you sculpt a life to meet your needs. This is how you find fulfillment. This is how you become a Complete Man.
Yes, it might seem like a miracle, but I’m not a miracle worker, and there’s only one of me to go around.
Most of what I teach is based on neuroscience and mindfulness. Some of it is ancient wisdom. Some of it is more modern psychology. All of it is based on proven, practical, and results-focused systems to help you get the most out of every aspect of your life.
When I work with clients, it’s usually one at a time. This time, it’ll be with a small group of guys. To make sure each guy involved gets the best experience possible, I’m keeping this group-coaching limited to 10 or 15 seats.
I’m also vetting each guy, myself. I want to make sure every guy there is right for this program. And I want to make sure I actually want to help them.
That might sound cold, but I’ve found not all people are ready to be saved.
I’ve also found that I just don’t like some guys. I respect my own time as much as I respect yours. And I don’t want to spend my time working with guys that just aren’t a right fit for what I do.
If I’m going to get the best results for you, I want to make sure the group you’re in is best set up to make that happen. For that reason, you’ll have to apply and I’ll need to interview you before you’re accepted into this group-coaching.
When I told my friend Justin Roethlingshoefer about what I was putting together, he insisted I let him bring his expertise to the table.
Justin is the founder of OWN IT, a community bringing health, wellness, and recovery to some of today’s top-performing CEOs and executives. He works with professional athletes and entrepreneurs alike, to get them the most out of their everyday performance.
If you want to be more productive, efficient, and perform at your highest capabilities, you need what Justin has to offer. He’s the author of three books on the subject and he’s worked with the Columbus Bluejackets, the Washington Capitals, and the Anaheim Ducks.
Justin helps guys track and maximize their sleeping patterns so they can wake up each day with enough energy to take the world on and conquer it.
He’s on the front line of using data analytics and applying them to sleep schedules. He’s also one of the world’s leading experts on nutrition, exercise, immunity, and stress management.
His results are taking the sports and business world by storm and he’s about as “in-demand” as they come.
Oh, and he wants to share his expertise with you… FREE OF CHARGE.
When you sign up for Complete Mastery: For Businessmen, you’ll get access to Justin’s private OWN IT community, as a bonus.
Justin will join in on some of the calls and give his insights when needed. You’ll also have access to Justin’s bi-weekly OWN IT calls, geared towards maximizing your energy and performance.
Between what you’ll get from me, and what you’ll get from Justin, you’ll have everything you need to get maximum performance from your mind and your body.
A healthy mind, body, and soul. Fulfillment in every area of your life.
More control over your own thinking, actions, and outcomes.
If you’re ready to get off the hamster wheel and start enjoying everything you’ve worked so hard to build…
If you’re ready to take control and stop working harder than you need to…
If you’re ready to live the life of a Complete Man…
Book your call with me today, and see if this revolutionary new approach of mind and body is right for you.
I’ve worked with dozens of the world’s highest performing men to come up with this approach to helping guys like you live your best life possible. To work with me, one-on-one, my rates are set at 10K a month, with a 6-month retainer. To get these results, you’d usually be looking at around a 60k investment in yourself.
Because I believe in what I do, and I want to make it available to more guys, I’ve decided to shift my approach a little. Complete Mastery: For Businessmen is my way to bring this transformation into the lives of more men like you. And, at a much lower price point than what I typically charge.
If you’re tired of bumping up against that glass ceiling…
If you want to break free and have all the success you deserve…
If you want fulfillment in all areas of your life, without feeling like you’re trudging through quicksand to get it…
If, at any time during the first 30 days of working together, you don’t feel like you’re getting what you expected from the program, just let me know.
If you show up, implement what you learn, and don’t start seeing results right away, there’s no reason you should have to pay for the program.
Attend the calls. Watch the weekly videos. Take action on what you learn. If you do that, I guarantee you’ll start seeing drastic changes for the better in your life.
If not, I’ll refund your money.
I don’t believe in payments without results. I do believe in what we do. And I’m willing to stand behind it, 100%.
Once you get your copy of The Complete Man, you’ll see how all-encompassing the subject matter is.
We cover almost every aspect of a man’s life and how you can get the most out of every action you take.
Even so, there were a few topics I wanted to go deeper on, but for editing and formatting reasons, they ended up being cut from the final version of the book. There’s also some additional material and even a mini-course that I wanted to include as a free bonus for ordering your copy of The Complete Man.
Most guys dream way too small.
They do this for a lot of reasons. Sometimes it’s because they’ve been told that dreaming big is selfish or unrealistic. Sometimes it’s because they’ve failed in the past when dreaming too big, and they never want to relive that kind of disappointment again. Sometimes it’s just because they don’t know their own potential.
Either way, the biggest limitations I see most guys struggle with… are almost always self-imposed.
I’ve got a four-step method for crafting dreams that you can reach and are worthy of your true greatness.
No more falling short and licking your wounds.
No more living below your actual potential.
Let me show you exactly what to do to craft the life you never dreamed you could achieve; from envisioning it, to planning it out, to making it a reality.
I would have loved to include these two chapters in the final edit of the book. But it felt better to include them as bonus materials than to shoehorn them into the book. So that’s what we did.
Not from a cheesy-guru point of view, but from a scientific and neurological point of view.
Believe it or not, science seems to be catching up to spirituality. Since neuroscience is one of my areas of expertise, it only made sense to include a chapter on it in the book. But, like I said, after writing the chapter, it felt more appropriate to have it as a bonus chapter instead.
This is the problem I most often confront when working with my clients; a lack of fulfillment.
They did all the things they were told would make them happy. They followed the path society told them to follow. They climbed the ladder of success, only to find it was leaning up against the wrong wall.
If the most powerful lessons from the entire book were all boiled down into one chapter, this would be it. In fact, this chapter was potent and on point, I couldn’t include it in the book.
I didn’t want people reading it until they had the foundational knowledge of what was in the book. But it didn’t feel right to have this chapter placed at the end as a “re-cap” of everything you’d just read. So, I took it out and made it a bonus chapter, available only if you order the book from this page.
“The Complete Man provides a new and inspiring perspective on men’s success, along with real practical tools for making success happen fast. Every man should have a copy for himself and every woman should get a copy for the man in her life”
– Loral Langemeier, The Millionaire-Maker & Star of the Movie The Secret
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